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The Whole Man Program: Reinvigorating Your Body, Mind, and Spirit After 40

This breakthrough program for men over 40 and the partners who love them shows men how they can maximize their passion, power, productivity, and purpose.

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I've been wanting to write this book for a very long time.

When I was five and my father was forty-two he had a "nervous breakdown" and was hospitalized. Our lives were never the same and I began to wonder, "What happened to my father? Why did he get sick? Why did he leave? What could I have done?"

I was twenty-six when my son, Jemal, was born. I had refused to go quietly to the waiting room with the other expectant fathers, but unceremoniously barged into the delivery room to complete the process that had begun 24 hours previously when my wife began labor.

Holding my son for the first time I made a vow that I would help create a healthier family than the one I grew up in. I would try and understand what causes the strain that leads to physical, emotional, and spiritual breakdown in so many men as we pass our fourth decade of life. I wanted to see if it were possible to maintain our health into our 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s and beyond.

The success of my last two books, Male Menopause and Surviving Male Menopause—which have now been translated into 15 languages-convinced me that I had learned some things in the 50 plus years since my father's fateful illness that could be of help to other fathers, sons, wives, and lovers.

The Whole Man Program: Reinvigorating Your Body, Mind, and Spirit After 40 is my gift to those of you who want to take charge of your health, understand what makes you tick, and get the support for putting your knowledge into action. Whether you have been healthy, sick, or somewhere in between this book will challenge you to enjoy life more fully.

Here are some of the topic areas that I hope will give you a flavor of The Whole Man Program:

  • How Men Can Live Long and Well
  • Andropause (Male Menopause): What Is This Crazy Time We're Going Through?
  • Why Men Die Sooner and Live Sicker
  • Hormones For Health: Why Men Need Testosterone
  • From Career to Calling: Finding Our Spiritual Life Gift
  • Developing and Maintaining Intimacy: The Graduate School of Life
  • The 8-Week Men's Health Challenge: Will You Survive?

Need help now?

I offer two options for help: (1) Personal counseling with me and (2) My new internet-based program.

  1. If you think you may need counseling help, feel free to contact me at (If you're new, be sure and respond to my spamarrest notice so I receive your e-mail.) I offer immediate help in my office or by phone.
  2. Are you a man who is overstressed, frustrated, and angry? Are you a woman who walks on egg shells afraid you will set him off? Is your relationship suffering? This program is for you. To get help CLICK HERE.
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